What is wrong with my so called pal? Bride to be gone bad.?

They say you find out who your real friends are in times of adversity...and while I'm sorry you're getting such a hard wake-up call as to where you fit into the lives of these "friends," it does represent an opportunity for you to make a completely fresh start. Start making your own plans and meeting new people, so that when these folks call up, you only have to deal with them if you feel like it. My guess is once you meet some less self-centered individuals, that'll be less and less frequent.