What am I going to do. Pls help so upset?

Oh My God!! Let me just say this exactly the way that I am thinking it so that it is absolutely clear, no one in this entire scenario needs to be doing something as serious as GETTING MARRIED!! because no one is mature enough to take it seriously!! i have no idea how old any of you are, but this all sounds to me like you all are a bunch of teenage/junior high school students fighting over silly little kiddy stuff. and again i gotta ask, why is a question like this asked in the marriage and divorce section? Honey, my advice to you is to read some of these other very serious questions. read them and see what real problems are, and then you be thankful that you aren't engaged right now because you so totally do not need to be planning to get married. be young, live your life, enjoy it, and stop already with all of the teenage drama.. reading this exhausted me!